Tuesday, July 31, 2007

My best friend's getting married!

Well, the time has finally come for Lisa and Dan to get hitched (next month). Since they've been going strong for 7 years now, I don't think we ever had a doubt, but it is in full force with Lisa having showers and bachelorette parties both in NJ and in SC...lots of work but lots of presents!
Her wedding will be in Rock Hill, SC next month over the Labor Day weekend and it's going to be beautiful. She's got most of it planned out and is just working on the final touches.
This weekend we did her shower and bachelorette party in Rock Hill. I've included only the shower pictures, since bachelorettes get a little too raunchy to put on your family blog!
I'll just say we had a lot of fun and Lisa didn't do anything that she would regret later!
-Shirin


From left: Lisa, Mrs Morris (future mother-in-law), Irysse (mother), me, and Devon (sister-in-law).

Playing chubby bunnies before the bachelorette started (from left: Brendan, Marc, Devon, Tanya (other sister-in-law), me, Tita, and Lisa.

The Chubby Bunny Champion (she always wins...I think that's why she always wants to play).

The shower at Tanya's house was done beautifully (thanks to Tanya, Suzanne, Devon, and Irysse)...Irysse made this delicious fountain of chocolate).

Great spread with lots of vegetarian options for the Modaresi twins...poor Irysse knows by now she has to do it!

Lots of friends and family gathered around to watch Lisa open her loot...and there was lots of it. More from just this shower than I got from my whole wedding...I guess that's what I get for inviting 20 people (her guest list is over 300).

More ladies watching the present-opening.

Sunday, July 29, 2007

Philosophical question of the week: Causality


By popular demand (1 person) I'm bringing back the p.q.o.t.w (philospophical question of the week, which I have decided to pronounce pa-quo-taw). We have the beginnings of a lively debate already started in the comments section of the last post. Dr Modaresi made a rather controversial and to me confusing statement (I'm just realizing that "Dr Modaresi" is a term that will be unambiguous only for 3 more years). Here is part of his argument:


If a glass window shatters after I throw my shoes at it, what is the cause and what is the effect? If you are like an average person, you would probably say that the force of the shoes caused the glass to break: Cause precedes the effect. Wrong! The opposite is, in fact, the truth. The shattering of the glass causes the shoes to be thrown. I know you will object to this line of reasoning, but that is the limitation of the biological basis of our minds and not the nature of reality. It will all make sense once you realize the anti-intuitive fact that events occur as inevitable interactions of physical variables according to the laws of physics. A glass is broken at a given time is necessitated by the laws of physics, the same way that seasons change, rain and snow falls as a result of interactions among heat, moisture, temp differentials, etc. The same is true about other facts we observe, such as seasons changing. Therefore, the occurrence of rain and snow in winter, which is inevitabel, causes the precedeing meterological changes to take place. Hence, cause follows the effect. Humans do not see it this way and reason backward because our minds are limited.Think about it.


My Uncle asked:
Would that logic work if the shoes were accidently thrown at the glass? Is it the intent of the thrower to break the glass that designates the breaking of the glass as the cause?


Dr Modaresi replied:
Intention of the thrower, the shoe, as well as all the other events and occurrences that preceded the event of glass breaking, such as the thrower being born, being there, and having shoes to throw, all were the effect, not the cause. They were there and caused by the glass breaking at that moment in time in that place in the universe. See what I mean?


I want to address Dr Modaresi and also ask a general question about causality. First, these sentences: "It will all make sense once you realize the anti-intuitive fact that events occur as inevitable interactions of physical variables according to the laws of physics. A glass is broken at a given time is necessitated by the laws of physics, the same way that seasons change, rain and snow falls as a result of interactions among heat, moisture, temp differentials, etc."


First off, I don't think that the fact that the laws of physics govern the way events play out is non-intuitive. Secondly, I don't see how that fact is evidence for reversing the ordinary notion of causation. You haven't given any support for the linkage of those two ideas. The most I think you can conclude is that, since we live in an entirely deterministic system, dinstinctions between the system running forward or backward are not very important. I believe Steven Hawking says in A brief history of time something about most or all physical processes being "time symmetric", meaning that laws governing the interactions of particles in the universe hold true even if you reverse the direction of time (e.g. an explosion becoming an implosion would perfectly follow the equations of physics if you flipped the direction of time). So, I can see the arbitrary nature of claiming that the act of throwing the shoe shattered the glass, but I don't see a compelling argument for what you stated.


The broader topic of causality I wanted to bring up is the compatibility of determinism and free will. I think that all events can be described as the effect of an unbroken chain of prior causes; this includes things as seemingly intangible as a parent's love for his/her child. That means that if I were omnipotent (knowing all the laws of the universe & knowing the position and velocity of every particle in it) that I could predict exactly how/what/when/why someone would love his/her child. This doesn't make the love any less real or meaningful, just as learning that hunger is caused by the hypothalamus being signaled by dropping glycogen levels in my liver doesn't make the experience of hunger any less real. But it does pose a problem for free will. Certainly it feels like I'm making free decisions. But when I start pinning down the causes for things (like why I eat bagels so much), there don't appear to be any non-caused items in the equation. I eat bagels for many reasons, you can describe them on a physiological, psychological, or atomic level, each equally valid. But I think that even the events that go on in my head prior to walking into the kitchen and eating a buttered everything bagel with garlic bits sprinkled on it (aka "health grub") could be entirely explained by good enough science.
The movie Groundhog's Day is great for this discussion. In it, Bill Murray lives the same day over and over again. He is able to memorize what everyone in the town does because they act in precisely the same way each day (with the exception that their behavior can be modified by interactions with him). If there is such a thing as free will, then some days people should act differently for no other reason than free will. If the same circumstances cause the people to act in exactly the same way every day then I don't see how free will is a meaningful notion; we're all just meat-automatons. You can kind of start to see how the sensation of volition could be nothing more than the brain telling itself the story of its own experiences (or more precisely, one area of the brain telling another area of the brain).
Well, I have more to say, but it's getting late. That will have to do for now. Think about that and let's discuss it, my fellow meat-automatons,
Gabriel





Thursday, July 26, 2007

What we've been up to...

Reading the last Harry Potter book, of course. I started the day my research was over (Tues) and read as much as I could until I finished this morning (Thurs). Keep in mind it's over 700 pages, so it takes some dedication to get through it that fast, but I loved it so much it was easy to stay sucked in and do nothing else. Gabriel is reading it now, so don't post any spoiler comments. I liked it a lot though. What a great series!
If you are one of those people who have only watched the movies, you owe to yourself to get the real story and read these books. Some day when I've got lots of extra time, I'll probably read them all the way through again: 7 books = 1000s of pages = lots of awesome reading fun! I was really glad the seventh and final book came out in the summer, since I'd probably have to fail a few courses in vet school if it came out in the fall or spring. I think I'll definitely read the whole series to my children, but I told Gabriel the last few books are too scary for small children. I figure if I read one per year starting at age 5, they'll be ready for the scary parts by the time they are 9-12 years old.
Happy reading!
-Shirin

Unable to pull myself away.

He's only on Chapter 13 right now. Still has a long way to go.

Oh yeah, we also have some new kittens. I'll post more pics of them later.

Wednesday, July 25, 2007

It's getting hotter...


Another big Ebay sale last night has pushed the TV fund up even higher. We're almost there!
-Shirin

Personality test results from others.

In case you are interested how other people scored (see original post), here's the list I know of so far:

My mom: Concerned director
My dad: Respectful analyst
Gabriel: Generous inventor
Anahita: Benevolent creator
Prathap: Animated leader
Uncle Sam: Reserved analyst
My friend Tanja: Benevolent director

I'd love to hear some more of ya'll's personality descriptions (they are so funny and appropriate): TAKE THE TEST!

-Shirin

PS The last time I took it I was "Benevolent Dictator;" however, when I just took it again, I was considered an "Advocating Director." Who knows what that means? I still had high agency, empathy, masculinity, and extroversion.

Monday, July 23, 2007

Getting closer...

Gabriel has gotten us 1/2 way to the big screen TV. Go Ebay!
-Shirin

Sunday, July 22, 2007

Home-made commercial, Take II.

We re-made the commercial (see previous commercial post). We did a bunch of versions and tried to correct our mistakes from last time.
It still took forever, but this time we got Clayton and David to come along to help.
We'll post it after Gabriel is done editing.
-Shirin

David ironing out the creases of the backdrop.


Steaming out the creases (one of the bigger problems from last time).

Sisters having fun.

David and Gabriel picking up the last Harry Potter book. I'm having trouble not reading it yet...I just can't start it until I have a few days off to lose myself.

Crazy picture...Gabriel fooling around.

Getting ready to film the commercial.

The camera and light lady.

Rehearsing.

Filming the commercial.

Gabriel doing one of his parts.

Each person doing their job: David with the cue card, Anahita with the camera, and Clayton with the boom mike. Very professional crew!

Glad to be done!

Friday, July 20, 2007

The results are in: I am a "Benevolent Dictator!"

I think my dad will just love that description. Take your own personality test and find out what crazy title they give you! It was a fun test to take, though, I do like to take tests in general.
You can swipe your mouse over each color below to see all the components that make me this benevolent dictator. I found it surprising that I have more masculine than feminine qualities. Yikes.
-Shirin

Wednesday, July 18, 2007

Reaching our flat screen TV goal, one Ebay sale at a time.

Well, if you already read my post from a few weeks ago about the coveted, luxurious, non-necessary items we craved for our new condo, you'll be interested to know that my baker's rack has since been attained easily and (fairly) cheaply from Target, while Gabriel's big flat screen TV is having to be hard earned every step of the way. Gabriel has been amazingly willing to part with some of his most treasured games, and other valuable objects he's been holding on to for years, now that the incentive to make money for the TV has been introduced.
We've been to yard sales every weekend since moving, looking for valuable items (unbeknownst to their previous owners) to sell on Ebay. Gabriel is also parting with some of his most valuable Magic cards that he still uses occasionally but are worth a ton of money. How he got them all to begin with, I can't imagine, but he's sitting on a treasure trove. We've also still got his comic books and various role playing books that have all held their value well. Sadly, when I tried to think of something that I owned that was worth some real money, I could come up with nothing. I guess it's because I never buy anything, other than food and the occasional outfit.
I will continue to track his progress with my little money thermometer I just created instead of writing the introduction for my research poster. (Oh, the fond memories of procrastinating on assignments are coming back to me). You can keep tracking our weekly fund raising progress on http://modaresibeal.blogpsot.com every Sunday or Monday after his Ebay auctions close. Obviously, donations are welcomed!
-Shirin

Sunday, July 15, 2007

Guess who's visiting?

He's long, yellow, and close to the ground. Any guesses? (Picture has been altered to protect said visitor's identity).


Thursday, July 12, 2007

And then there were two...oops, wait, now four again!

Well, two more of our babies got adopted today (Cyrsei and Arya). A nice lady from UGA who just moved her daughter out of the house to go to college wanted some company. Despite the fact that she's only owned dogs before, she seemed eager to do everything right for the kitties and has a brother who's a vet that I'm sure will help her. A much better life than a dumpster kitty could dream of. While that might lead you to believe we've only got 2 left (Aerys and Catelyn), you would only be partially right. We do only have 2 left from the original litter of 7. However, last night we acquired two more wild ones that were trapped by Campus Cats at our old apartment complex. So, now we have 4 again, though these new two do nothing but sit behind the toilet and glower. We plan to get started remedying that immediately!
-Shirin

There are two kitties in this picture; look hard!

Introducing Varys and Tully (a brother and sister pair).

Tully is a beautiful girl (no white on her nose).

Wednesday, July 11, 2007

Master Tita.

Yesterday I skipped work after lunch for a very special occasion: my sister's Master's defense in Atlanta. She's been working on an MA in Anthropology for the last two years, and her thesis was about immigrant kids at risk for dropping out of high school. The coolest thing was that she made a documentary about the after-school program she'd started for at-risk immigrant high school students, and we got to watch their progression from the first days when they met with her and talked about the types of kids that usually dropped out of school and different reasons for not finishing high school all the way til the end when they had made their own documentaries about their lives. Tita taught them how to film and edit, so they could do it all themselves. Earlier this year, the kids even had their videos shown at a screening where people came and watched all their films being shown (I missed it, unfortunately). It seemed like such a rewarding project. Afterwards, she gave a powerpoint presentation about her goals and findings and then her professors critiqued and questioned her for at least 30 minutes. I have to say, even though I knew she could handle it, I was still a little nervous when the committee-members began questioning my sister. It all went fine, though.
Afterwards, we both knew what to do. We filled our bellies with delicious Thai food, hung out with one of Tita's friends Pauley, and applauded her for "getting all of their signatures" (i.e. she'd definitely gonna graduate once she does some minor revisions). It made me a little wistful about being finished with my own education, though the end is still so far away.
Congratulations, Tita! This is a proud day for the Modaresi household. This now brings the talley to 4 Bachelor's degrees, 3 Master's degrees, 2 Ph.Ds, and 1 pending DVM. Man, you'd think we'd be whizzes at trivia games, but we're not! Oh well.
-Shirin

Tita standing at the podium before her defense began.

Setting up her video and power point. The guy in front of me was an undergrad poly sci major that needed extra credit in his Anthropology class.

Pauley and Tita posing after the defense was over. I think Tita's relief shows on her face.
Our appetizers: tofu salad with peanut dressing and Thai spring rolls with sweet and sour sauce.

Hoola-hooping for joy!

Harry Potter el quinto


Well, I have a date tonight with my husband. He's taking me to see the 5th Harry Potter that just came out today. Some of you may already know and understand the greatness that these books and movies (lesser so) possess, while others of you may not. Believe me, it's worth all the hype. Some of you may not like magicky kinds of books, and so these books don't appeal to you, but the story itself is so compelling, I found myself unable to put down any of the six I've read so far. Of course, the movies never do the books a bit of justice, but the special effects and acting are fun to watch. Plus, this means only 10 more days until the 7th and final book comes out. Eek!!!
-Shirin

Monday, July 09, 2007

Getting back into the swing of things.


Since I finally have a functional kitchen again, I felt like actually making us dinner tonight (that wasn't sandwiches or BK veggie burgers). So, I whipped up this amalgamation of dishes from items we already had in the fridge while Gabriel did his nightly Stairmaster. Looks like real life is returning at last.
(From left and moving clockwise: green bean casserole, curry and lentil cous cous, garlic toast, macaroni and soy cheeze, fake marinated chicken cutlet, and soy balls with brussel sprouts in spicy tomato sauce. Yummy!)
-Shirin

Sunday, July 08, 2007

Plants!!! My other children.

Well, you guys know I love all kitties like my own children, but I also have a special place in my heart for plants; they are sort of like my favorite non-moving, non-talking babies. I'm pretty sure I got it from my dad who would ooh and ahh about all the trees we planted for my seventh birthday and then named after family members. My grandmother (mom's mom) is also a very green-thumbed lady, and I loved playing in her lush back yard as a kid.
So, after my parents gave me some extra cash today as a house-warming gift, I got some beautiful Bougainvillea's (my favorites in Mexico), a hanging pot of ivy (not pictured), and a fern. My dad had also brought me some elephant ears, which I hope to grow big and plentiful. I'm surprised I don't have any coleus growing right now, since it's been my go-to plant for a few years (it's very colorful and almost impossible to kill, though I did kill a few last month).
So, I'm glad to actually have a back porch to cultivate my gardening hobbies and nurture some of my other, not so well-known, babies.
If you guys have any other suggestions for good potted plants that don't require much more than watering and sun/shade, let me know!
-Shirin


My new plants. Bougainvillea can spread and will flower for months at a time, so I hope they like my back porch.

You know I had to include another picture of the cutest little bubsies ever! (Don't miss the little black one on the right...he blends in somehow).

Saturday, July 07, 2007

More work on the condo and kitties.

My parents are visiting this weekend, and it's been good for us and the kitties. Despite the fact that they got stuck on the highway for 4 hours with tire problems, they arrived safely this evening, and we were all fed the delicious Persian food they brought and let them spend lots of time socializing our kitties. It's much easier with more people per kittens.
Anahita and her boyfriend, visiting from CA, also were able to grace us with their appearances and eat some food and pet some kitties. I'm only going to see her a few more times before she moves to CA herself, so it was nice to spend some sister-time with her. It sucks that she's leaving, but I think it's the right decision
Two family visits in two weeks has definitely been a treat. Tomorrow my dad is going to take us to Home Depot to see if we need anything else. Maybe some more potted plants. Or maybe some picture frames. Or more lamps...the list could go forever.
-Shirin

House-hold decree: everyone must have a kitten!!

Me playing doctor to Prathap's finger (instead of mine, thank God).

My dad's reaction to the whole messy finger-thing.

I got my baker's rack!!! Now for the large screen TV!

Friday, July 06, 2007

And then there were four.

Only four kittens left (the fouth one isn't pictured).

Thursday, July 05, 2007

Farewell to our three favorites.

Well, like all good foster parents, we now have to let go of our sweet kitties. We took them in as scraggly, wild flea bags and worked with them til they were fit for an indoor kitty's luxurious life. And, now that they are just getting good and sweet, we have to give them up. It's sad; however, after doing this dozens of times now, we are seasoned pros and know that we'll come upon equally loveable and needy cats in the future. To honor the voyage onward of our babies to their new homes, we present a video of our favorite three. They will be missed.
-Shirin

Wednesday, July 04, 2007

Gluttinous home-owners

Well, now that we've paid several thousand dollars down and taken out a loan for many more thousands to buy our condo, I would've thought we'd be satisfied. We love our condo; we are making it our own, pretty creation. Who could want anything more??? WE DO!
Somehow, going from our simple, impoverished graduate student apartment to a much more spacious condominium has whetted our appetites for the finer material things life has to offer. It's sad to think that just 6 months ago, we embarked on the "compact" journey where we bought nothing at all for 3 months. Now that we have this nice place, we seem to feel the need to fill it up with nice stuff.
So, I am here to share with you our two most coveted items right now. One's mine and one's his. Luckily, mine is only a baker's rack from Target that isn't that expensive, so I will probably be able to get mine soon. Unfortunately for Gabriel, his is a large, flat screen LCD TV. I like it too but for totally different reasons. He likes it b/c of its quality picture and cool movie-playing abilities. I like it b/c we can get rid of our damn ugly TV table and hang the TV on the wall. I mean, we don't even get cable, so it'd just be for movies, but it sure would be pretty on our wall.
Anyway, it's WAY too expensive for us to splurge on right now (even the reduced Ebay prices we've found), so Gabriel has committed to selling every last valuable, expendable item in our house on Ebay, til our PayPal account floweth over and allows us to buy this montrous luxury neither of us thinks we really need. By the way, that plan is win-win for me, b/c we can get rid of some of the extraneous (in my opinion) items that clutter our closets while earning ourselves a large screen TV. Seems crazy, but it's what's gonna happen, so we all might as well just get used to it.
-Shirin



My baker's rack. I really need the extra counter space, and it's cute.




This object is smaller than it appears in real life.

Monday, July 02, 2007

All better!

Good news. I got a recheck today at the health center, and I've been given a clean bill of health...for my finger, at least!
I have much less swelling and pain, and the PA said it looked like it was well on its way to recovery. The culture came back as a Staph bacterium species, which is much better news than if it had been Pasteurella multocida, a really bad bacterium in cats' mouths. So, the doc said I didn't have an infection in my tendon sheath after all and that staying on my antibiotics would complete my treatment with total function restored to my finger.
As for my culprit, he is actually getting his payback today, poor boy. (He and all his siblings are getting spayed and neutered). He's turned out to be a sweet boy, and I don't blame him at all. It's all just a day's work in the rescue biz.
-Shirin

The bad little boy who bit me is actually a cutie pie.